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TMB Over The Years

TMB Over The Years The web site has existed in seven major versions. Below are the previous six versions of TMB, and the original 1999 “Godly Intimacy in Marriage”. Version 6 Dec 2010 – Aug 2013 Version 5 July 2005

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Working on it!

The TMB boards are down – we’re working on it!

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Affiliate Links

Affiliate Links Some of the links found on this web site are affiliate links. This means TMB is an affiliate of the web site, and receives a small payment when a purchase is made after following the affiliate link. These

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About Paul & Lori

About Paul and Lori By Paul and Lori Byerly Who are Paul & Lori? How do we, Paul and Lori, define ourselves? We are parents of adult children (one of each), grandparents of three, husband and wife. We are non-denominational,

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About TMB

ABOUT THE MARRIAGE BED This ministry came into being in December of 1997 as an AOL homepage called “Godly Intimacy In Marriage.” Our original goal was to offer thoughts, teachings and information on a range of marital matters, including sex.

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Our (messy) History

OUR (MESSY) HISTORY By Paul & Lori Byerly One significant reason we created this ministry is what we’ve been through; so, it seems only fair that we share some of our history. We were both raised in middle-class homes by

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Our Thoughts on Marriage

OUR THOUGHTS ON MARRIAGE Paul & Lori Byerly The Bible contains relatively few direct commands about the day-to-day living of a godly marriage. This makes it hard to “grab the Book and look it up.” However, marriage, and what God

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TMB Forum Oversight Group

TMB FORUM OVERSIGHT GROUP and THE VOICE OF OG Managing a discussion group is always a challenge, and a group discussing sexual issues has additional challenges. As the Marriage Bed e-mail list grew, we felt the need to have some

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Got Jesus?

GOT JESUS? While this site was designed for those who follow Jesus, we are aware that a growing number of our visitors are not Christian. Some of you got here from a search engine, others followed a link from a

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