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Watch Your Spouse Masturbate?

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  • Gender differences were much smaller after correcting for age (our female respondents average about ten years younger than our men).
  • A little more than a third have never watched their spouse masturbate in any way.
  • About 40% have watched their spouse masturbate to orgasm. More women than men have done this.

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  • The gender differences between this and the first question are not entirely a result of the difference in age of respondents. The other factor would be the women who answer are more sex positive than Christian woman as a whole.

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  • The two yes answers give an idea of how much the individual wants to do this. Men show much greater enthusiasm.
  • Twenty-five percent of women, but only 4% of men have no desire to watch their spouse masturbate. Those who said this were about 15% more likely to say they were very serious about their faith. They were also somewhat older, and far less likely to have ever watched their spouse masturbate.
  • Ninety percent of men want to do this, and 8 in 10 of those want it a great deal. Fifty four percent of women want to try it, with 6 in 10 wanting it a great deal.

 

Women’s Comments:

  • It's a turn on to my husband and I. But not if he's doing it by himself. That's where I differ with him. I caught him watching porn and masturbating, I felt like he was cheating on me.
  • Masturbating for him is the only way I can climax, so he sees it fairly regularly. I actually brought it up! It was really hard the first time (I was soooo nervous and felt self-conscious), but he said it was really hot, so I got comfortable kind of fast. He even fingers me simultaneously now, making my orgasm faster and stronger. FEELS AMAZING! I actually like watching him masturbate too, but he's only done it a handful of times for me.
  • I personally believe that God intends one's spouse to fulfill the sexual needs in the other spouse. I believe that masturbation, even if with the spouse present, is selfish and excludes the need for the other partner at all. I think that it can set up for withdrawal and self fulfillment if the relationship is not going well. I have never masturbated, and my husband did in the days before his salvation by grace in the Lord Jesus Christ. We are satisfied with mutual pleasure giving, and don't choose to include what appears as self-serving.
  • It's just fine by me.
  • We have been married nearly 38 years. I wanted to watch him once, when we were fairly newly married because I wanted to see him ejaculate. He has never mentioned in the least that he has any interest in watching me. On the other hand, he has never mentioned anything he would like to do, nor can I get him to respond when I ask him what he would like to do. He has significant issues with sleepiness, and already faithfully uses a CPAP. (We have sought help from the doctor). We make love about weekly, usually planned, which seems to be the only way he can make the effort to stay awake, or wake up from falling asleep on the couch at 8:30. The last time, I did not get to orgasm and I kind of causally mentioned something like "you could finish me off by doing what you were doing before (foreplay)." He did not answer so then I said, or I guess I could take care of it myself. Again, no response. So I don't think he has any interest is watching me masturbate.
  • This may be the lazy option, but we've occasionally done this when my husband really wants release and I'm too absolutely exhausted to participate physically.
  • It wasn't a big turn on for me to watch him although I didn't mind, but it actually was a turn on for him to watch me after I got over feeling self-conscious.
  • I love watching my husband masturbate and always have. I've only felt comfortable masturbating in front of my husband in the last couple of years and have started to enjoy doing it because I can see what it does to him! Men are obviously sight stimulated and so this provides huge kicks! I don't know why it took so long for me to be comfortable about doing it in front of him but I think I was probably secretly ashamed and though it wasn't something a good Christian wife should do.
  • It makes us both hot!
  • It's not fair, I feel cheated, that I ought to be the one making him reach orgasm, not something else.
  • It is a HUGE turn on for me. If he starts, I want to finish it!
  • He likes to watch me, I hate doing it. I hate when he touches himself, too. We're here to fulfill each other, not ourselves.
  • I had to choose no to my spouse watching me masturbate for two reasons, 1) I RARELY do and 2) IF I do I'm very self-conscious about it. I know he would love to watch so I'm trying to work on it for him, and for me.
  • I'd rather be part of the process.
  • This is something we've never engaged in as a married couple and I don't think we'd ever be comfortable doing. I know I would feel embarrassed and dirty and it just would not work.
  • I don't mind because he is of natural man kind that god has given me a very heart-warming husband, I like to see him happy every time he climaxes.
  • He's a recovering porn addict, so that thought bothers me.
  • I like him to watch me to orgasm.
  • I truly believe that as a wife it is my job to satisfy my husband. There are plenty of ways I can do that for him, why should he have to take matters into his own hands? Sex is for us to enjoy together, satisfying one another.
  • We do this together.
  • I do not enjoy being watched. I would prefer a participant, even though he says he enjoys watching. It makes me feel used, cheap, and if I have to do it myself, I would prefer to be private so I don't feel self-conscientious. I haven't always felt that way, but this is how I orgasm 90% of the time.
  • I would like to watch him to see exactly what he likes.
  • Super hot but hate to waste a good hard-on ;) I especially like it as a video when I travel for work.
  • Just started after 23 years and we have both enjoyed it very (VERY) much!!
  • I have invited him to watch me but he has yet to take me up on the offer.
  • If it were during the course of our lovemaking.
  • He doesn't masturbate.
  • His satisfaction is my goal. If he wants to finish off after I've started I will kiss on him while he finishes.
  • We have done it together during our lovemaking on occasions and have enjoyed it!
  • I'm sure he would like me to, but I'm a prude.
  • We pleasure each other.
  • I find this very intimate. I feel very vulnerable doing this for my husband and opening myself up and letting him watch me demonstrates to him how much I trust him and how safe he makes me feel. And I get very aroused watching how turned on he gets watching me. I usually orgasm but he holds off so that we can finish with PIV.
  • Love it!
  • It's definitely a bigger turn on to my husband to watch me. It is an occasional part of our sexual play right now because I am breastfeeding and orgasm is often elusive or nearly impossible. Often the only way for me to orgasm is for me to "finish the job," although my husband touches me as well as watches. I guess it is probably a turn on to him to see me desire that kind of sexual release. (I do not masturbate alone.) I personally don't find watching him masturbate to be a turn on; it is more a learning experience for me so I can better please him.
  • I love my husband very much, he is extremely sexy to me and we have a great sex life...it has occurred to me this is one thing we haven't done...looks like we gotta fix that !
  • "Ewwwww".
  • I can see how it would be helpful. Watching him would show me how he likes to be touched. I'm not against seeing him do it but not dying to see it either. I am extremely self- conscious about doing myself and him watching me!
  • It is always a pleasure to show my husband what I like and for him to show me what pleases him. What could be more intimate.
  • I just think this pleasure should be generated from us making each other feel good.
  • It is wrong in the sight of God.
  • My husband struggles with the aftermath of a porn addiction (before we were married) and masturbating leaves a bad taste in my mouth because of it. He has mentioned several times that he thinks he would like to watch me do it and once he did ask me to do it in an effort to show him what feels good but it was hard for me to do so and feel right. I don't think it is necessarily wrong especially in that context I just struggle with it because of where we've been.
  • I don't see the point. I want to give him pleasure, not watch him give it to himself.
  • Because men fantasize when they masturbate. Why would I want to watch him knowing all of the images he is masturbating to? Masturbation is wrong. It poisons the mind.
  • I would much rather do it for him and be involved in his pleasure than just sit back and watch. I give my husband hand jobs quite often and we both love it!
  • Just doesn't do anything for me. I'd rather participate!
  • I watched him before but it was before I was aware there had been a tremendous problem with pornography and masturbation. Now, I don't want him to touch himself at all because I want him to rely on me for all of his sexual satisfaction.
  • It just isn't interesting.
  • Only while we are together.
  • The only time I have ever watched my husband masturbate was on a FaceTime chat while we were half a world away. I have suggested it again since, but he doesn't seem into the idea. (The reason that I selected "yes, but not to orgasm" is because we lost our FaceTime connection at exactly the wrong time. Otherwise it would have been to orgasm for both.) Also, I often bring myself to orgasm after sex, and he is right beside me but I don't think he has ever watched, because he normally is so tired he falls asleep immediately.
  • I wouldn't mind watching him to figure out what he likes. If he does something that gets himself over the edge that I don't do for him, maybe I can try it for him next time and see how he reacts.
  • He shouldn't be doing that. If he wants sex or release he should come to me his wife!
  • It's very rare and we are both always participating, even if one of us is getting yourself off. It's never completely alone!

 

Men’s Comments:

  • I would like to watch my spouse masturbate because while the actions taken are highly erotic, it is being able to look into her eyes that makes it special and unique to me.
  • She is a prude. No really! she is a prude and is the worst kind; she assumes she is not!
  • We do this fairly often. I don't think that there is anything more intimate. And instructional too.
  • My wife has never masturbated at all, not even in private.
  • I love watching my wife masturbate. However, it only happens once in a blue moon. I'd love to see her experience great orgasms with just her own hands. My wife likes to hear details when I masturbate but doesn't ever do it for me. I find it very erotic.
  • I don't think she does and would see it as sin or gross at best. I do only when I need release. I only think about her and us. I think it would turn me on and I'd probably like it to see if she'd touch herself differently than I touch her. Almost all her orgasms and she has them 90% of time are from me doing manual. She has hard orgasm from me doing oral but she says afterward she does not like it and she won't kiss me after either. I don't think she knows I do mb. It is infrequent. Oh she won't touch herself either when we are together, but has moved my hand or grinded on my leg.
  • I would love to see it again. It is a turn on and makes me feel closer to her when she does.
  • My wife's style doesn't particularly lend itself to a good viewing angle (she lays on her stomach to masturbate), but I enjoy seeing the look on her face. She has at times touched herself more openly in front of me, but not in a way that did anything for her, just for my benefit.
  • It's hot, hot, hot....
  • I agree with the article comments. It is a private intimate act that when shared reinforces the intimacy between the couple. I have been married before and during that marriage my wife would allow me to watch and she liked to watch me, sometimes at the same time, but my current wife doesn't want to even talk about her masturbation and I got the impression she doesn't do it at all, maybe never has and thinks it is wrong. She seems to think that men who like to be touchy and affectionate are less manly and that oral sex on her is for lesbians or is too private. She is not an affectionate woman at this time in her life (57) but she is a very attractive women and I am interested in sharing various intimacies with her. In any event she does not like to talk about sex at all. No amount of chore doing, flowers, dinners or affectionate touching seems to have much effect unless she has been drinking and then she regrets it the next day. I am not giving up though. Sorry - went off subject.
  • Very common practice for us. We have sex about 3 times a week and we usually masturbate together every 5th time or so.
  • As a man I am naturally visually stimulated by this...such a beautiful and passionate act in the confines of marriage where husband and wife can experience it together is a bonding time...even if only one of the partners physically feels pleasure the other is emotionally engaged and feels happiness and satisfaction because their life partner is being sexually satisfied even in the absence of physical touch...this is possibly a gift that one partner gives the other on occasion...possibly an act of foreplay to help stimulate the marital sexual time together.
  • This does not happen often but it is VERY arousing and she knows it!! She will tie my hands to the bedpost/headboard and just let go of all inhibitions once in a while (she has to be in the right mood) with a vibrator or other toy in hand she puts on a show just for me. She will sometimes orgasm but many times will "climb on" to finish. This is not a regular thing but a special gift to me every few years.
  • I am not sure my wife has ever masturbated (or at least since she has been an adult... Last 10 years).
  • During sex, it turns me on when she touches herself, so that's the context within which I'm answering these questions.
  • Would be a big turn on for me, but don’t think she will. She thinks it is slutty.
  • I would like to actually see that she is a sexual being!
  • When I watch my wife masturbate I learn more about her. It's just such a turn on. My dream is to walk into the bedroom and see my wife laying the bed naked masturbating...and waiting for me to take over.
  • All of the comments you made on XY are spot on.
  • My wife has never masturbated before in her life. I would like her too just so she can learn about her sexuality. I would like to watch because it shows me she is sexual, which I don't see much otherwise.
  • Seems quite a bit more intimate to have the spouse do the exploring on the person rather than self.
  • I'm sure she would do it for me, problem is, she really doesn't do it, and would have a hard time getting herself worked up enough to do it. I have a hard enough time getting her off - I don't think she's have it much easier.
  • This is one of the most intimate things she could do for me. I'd like to watch her from start to finish for the 1st orgasm, not just the 3rd, 4th or 5th one. The thought of her stroking her own skin, breasts, nipples, and "other areas" is VERY exciting! Take your time, Baby! I LOVE to see her pleasure! I would also like her to encourage me to masturbate while she watches -- to enjoy MY pleasure. Perhaps even fingering herself while she watches me!
  • I'm not interested in watching her masturbate. I am very interested in seeing her aroused. Aroused by me is awesome! Her help in helping me arouse her would be really cool.
  • It is very intimate and personal and it took a while for her to allow me to be a part of it. Now we both enjoy it together.
  • I would love to watch her, but she does not masturbate, says it does nothing for her. She's tried a few times for me, but it's a let-down knowing it's just for me and does nothing for her.
  • I would love to see her touch herself for me and to hear her enjoy what she is doing. I want to look into her eyes and connect with her.
  • I would love to watch my wife do it but I'm still trying to convince her that most things are not bad to do in the marriage bed. It's a working progress. Any thoughts on how to open her up to ideas?
  • Our marriage counselor has said that masturbation (even mutual or concurrently) is sex with self. I'm high drive. I think watching and being invited to participate is a great thing.
  • Only watched her once would love to again.
  • I want to experience my wife's pleasure in any way that I can and still honor her and God. I want to be more in tune to what types of touch or movements do it for her.
  • My wife is opposed to masturbation, even as a shared activity.
  • We used to be such prudes in the bedroom for years, but recently (since The Marriage Bed has informed me that you can be Christian and kinky...) our sexual appetite, imagination, and energy has increased unimaginably... I had an emotional affair, and my wife a physical one, but God is restoring... But as a Pentecostal we used to testify that the things that we used to do we don't do anymore. That is true of our sex life now. Watching her masturbate would be HOT! We have pretty much done everything else.
  • Recently my wife sent me a video of her masturbating and it was the best gift she has ever given me.
  • It is completely visually erotic. Complete vulnerability.
  • While I enjoy it, I can't help from wanting to join in and please her. "Sit back and let me do the honors here, honey!" :-)
  • She says she does not want to "put on a show" for me. I crave her as the "show". She watched me once and I would like her to do it more but she tends to judge what I like negatively even though it is pretty normal stuff.
  • Understanding more her process of arousal, how she touches herself and how she responds at the point of climax...
  • What could be more intimate than seeing your spouse pleasure themselves for you.
  • I lay motionless by Her side while She goes to that other place in Her mind ~ I treasure that time and love to feel Her breathing change and muscles react until I know She's arrived ..... and slowly return from afterglow, never asking what path had been taken ;-)) sweet surrender
  • There is nothing hotter and sexier than watching and hearing the moans and whimpers of my wife as she is reaching climax.
  • She isn't interested in masturbating, but if she wanted I would watch. She's only watched me through the computer when we were separated by travel.
  • My wife has watched me masturbate many times, usually while she provides "inspiration". This has worked well for us when I need release to be able to think straight and she isn't feeling up to participating. The only time I have been able to watch her is a few brief, awkward moments during mutual play. She is incredibly self-conscious about touching herself, especially in front of me. Oddly, she enjoys watching me and thinks my masturbation is very natural. This is an aspect of mutual play that we are working on. I would find it incredibly sexy and think that her self-exploration would help her in general to find sensations that she likes.
  • She only manages to orgasm with a vibrator used by herself, not with her own fingers, nor by me in any way.
  • I think it's because masturbation is such a taboo topic. To be honest, I doubt she does masturbate. She doesn't seem to have any sexual thoughts around me, let alone by herself.
  • My spouse is not very adventurous so something like this would never be on the table.
  • We regularly masturbate each other.
  • It's hot and great foreplay and if she reaches orgasm then she's more likely to have more.
  • Love watching my wife pleasure herself, it is very hot and sexy. It also helps me understand how to manually stimulate her.
  • Absolutely, I think it would be lots of fun for us both to take turns showing each other, at least for a few minutes. I would love for her to show me how she likes to be touched there. What better way? Problem is always, how do I lovingly suggest this without her thinking that I’m a perv?
  • It's sad that this is even a question. Why would one ever not want to have fun with one's spouse?
  • I'd like to watch my wife but she's not interested. She's not interested in touching herself & I'm not going to push either. Maybe one day she'll bless me with it.
  • I would like to watch her do it again it is such a big turn on for it turn her on too to watch me do it. But next time it'll be within marriage we have decided to honour God by not engaging in any sexual activities again till married.
  • Would like 2 watch
  • So sexy. :)
  • It helps the mood sometimes.
  • My wife is an active participant with her fingers occasionally when we are intimate. My favorite moment was when I had to walk out of the room to settle the kids. I told her not to wait for me. When I came back she had indeed started without me. It was an extreme turn on!
  • Maybe during intimacy.
  • I would love to watch my wife masturbate because I feel it would open us up to new levels of intimacy in our sex lives. I think she would be very uncomfortable with me watching her masturbate and grossed out watching me masturbate at this point in our relationship, but as we grow together, I think she may warm up to the idea of us masturbating together and watching one another.
  • For some reason that I can't explain, it is a real turn-on for me. I love seeing her have pleasure.
  • It's a wonderful thing and a great way to learn how or pleasure your wife. Watch her and mirror this next time.
  • Watching to learn how she likes to be touched, with my hands it can be a "little" rough if I’m not really careful.
  • I would love to know what she likes.
  • I asked my wife to show me how she likes to be touched. I also enjoy it when she stimulates herself during sex.
  • It'd be sexy.
  • There are few things hotter than watching my wife play with herself.
  • My wife has never explored herself sexually and I would love to see that happen. She might learn what she likes more. As it is, I know as much as she does about herself sexually.
  • Even though it's her masturbating and I'm not directly involved, I still love to watch and listen to my wife orgasm. Plus, at least for us, her masturbation is usually just the opening act of a great love-making session that does involve me. I also like when she watches me.
  • My wife never likes to be touched and I am sure upbringing has a lot to do with it. This is only one of two areas we haven't done.
  • I get pleasure from giving her pleasure. She is very reserved about any and everything sexual, so her inhibitions get in the way of her achieving climax. Even still, she has to use a vibrator to even get "ready" for me, as she hates foreplay. She doesn't want help, but when she does allow me to participate she seems to enjoy it. She has never "helped" me. She doesn't like me to watch, and definitely doesn't want to watch me. I doubt she does it in private.
  • My biggest thrill one time was masturbating before her while we showered together (she just watched). Would love to do it again!
  • Sexless marriage for 4+ years
  • .. But not going to happen - we're Catholic.
  • Such a huge turn on to watch her all the way to orgasm.
  • I love it. Think it's great to watch be watched. She isn't into it.
  • I want to watch to learn how to pleasure her even more than I do now. I think it would also be a huge turn on to me. I doubt this will ever happen as she is uncomfortable with it. I have asked numerous times, only to get denied.
  • Masturbation tends to be a "pressure release". We tend to think of it as a last resort for myself, since if we have the time and ability doing each other is significantly preferable!
  • My wife has never masturbated, I would like to watch her do it once just so I could learn how to be more effective in stimulating her myself.
  • I would like to see my wife touch herself and bring herself to orgasm. I just think it would be hot to see her playing with herself. I would like to see here get comfortable in touching herself. She says why should she when she has me to masturbate her to orgasm.
  • My wife thinks that it would be dirty to watch her do that not sure how to change her mind here. Or if I asked she would look at me funny like... why would you want to see that.
  • I don't think it would be possible for me to watch without needing to participate and also climax.
  • I think I would like it as part of our lives, but am not sure how to bring the subject up. I really enjoy seeing the pleasure on my wife's face during sexual activities, but am unsure if she thinks it is proper. Something to bring up when I can get her aware from the computer, tablet, etc..
  • Sexless marriage, so it'll never happen.
  • We regard MB as selfish behavior and 'sharing' wouldn't change that.
  • How do you bring this request up to your spouse??? Would LOVE this...
  • It is great to watch her feel herself and show what feels good to her. It helps me to learn how to pleasure her. Great foreplay that we seldom do, but it is fun once in a while. Does not replace love making though.
  • We masturbate often together. As parents of multiple littles, masturbating is our go-to right now while they're sapping a lot of our energy. It's our way of connecting, and we help each other with whatever stimulation the other needs, i.e., touch, hot talk, visual. I guess we are frequently sexual with each other, and it includes masturbation, oral, and intercourse. We both love seeing each other's pleasure, and masturbating is one awesome, fun, and arousing way to enjoy each other's sexuality.
  • I would enjoy watching her enjoy the orgasm. But more importantly, I would get a chance to learn more accurately how to pleasure her properly.
  • Some of the best orgasms we have experienced is when we have PIV and DW also brings herself to orgasms manually. To see and hear the pleasure she is experiencing is sometimes overwhelming. Our sex life also changed and became better when we felt comfortable enough for our spouse to watch each other play with ourselves.
  • I'd like it if I were inside her at the same time. Otherwise, I'd just as well prefer to be the one giving her pleasure.
  • While this is something that I would like, my wife does not, and has never, masturbated. I have never been able to understand it, personally, but she just doesn't touch herself sexually. Ever.
  • We have occasionally masturbated together but I would love to watch her and be watched. I don't want it to replace sex and making love, but it is fun to masturbate. I want to have fun with her but she doesn't feel comfortable with the idea or letting me watch her and She has zero interest in watching me.
  • Love it. She especially likes it and often asks me to do it for her. She particularly likes to watch me ejaculate. Often, doing it for her it allows me something I like to watch also, which is to ejaculate on her - face, stomach, breasts. She always masturbates at the same time and watching me climax always throws her over the edge.
  • It's rare that I get to watch. I just recently learned that's because she greatly prefers for me to stimulate her than for her to do it herself. Can't argue with that!
  • Will never happen with my wife...
  • She has done this just once, and it was solo sooo sexy. It felt like a wonderful gift...but it seems like she had second thoughts about it and will not discuss it again.
  • I would really like to watch her, but I don't know if she masturbates. She has a problem with orgasm. Whenever she is close to it she "pulls back". I would like to see her masturbate so I can learn what it takes to put her over the top.
  • I don't even know if she does. She won't even help me masturbate.
  • We do mutual masturbation to finish sometimes after long foreplay.
  • It only happens when she is already very turned on, and then it turns both of us on even more for me watch her.
  • I like watching her explore herself and her sexuality.
  • She is very self-conscious about this activity. She has done it once or twice for me. She much prefers I use a toy or perform oral on her than her do it herself, and I'm more than happy to participate. I would prefer this activity as more a foreplay/teasing than the big final act.
  • She masturbates often for me, which is SO wonderful. But I'd love to see her use toys, and take it all the way. I could handle that, um, often. :-)
  • I spent three weeks traveling, and so my wife and I did some video chats that we called our foxy time, and it was fun!
  • This is a fairly frequently activity in our Marriage Bed these days. We've got a lot of young kids, and are exhausted at night a lot of the time. However, we're both fairly high drive. Masturbating together side by side helps us take the edge off a lot of nights. We have intercourse regularly, but side-by-side masturbation helps fill in the gaps, so to speak.
  • DW wasn't very open to this when I brought it up recently. I'm patiently hoping that will change with further awakening.
  • I have asked several times but always a no.
  • She uses a vibrator to get warmed up while I am there and we also use it during PIV set. Sometimes she has an orgasm before PIV and sometimes during sex. I enjoy to watch and sometimes gives her oral as she is using the vibe on her clit. Very sexy. She has not watched me, but we have not discussed. I usually do when she is not in the mood or on her cycle or we are apart. We have had phone sex a few times, both of masturbating and talking about how we feel and touching.
  • My spouse does not masturbate. Nor does she approve of masturbation for any reason. I've wanted to watch her do it since we've been married, but at this point, our marriage is practically sexless anyway.
  • It has always been with a massager.
  • It's SUPER erotic. She doesn't do it often, but when she does, she really puts on a show!
  • Spouse doesn't (won't) masturbate. Wish she would and teach me what feels good to her.
  • It is a fairly regular activity for us. My wife gets very tuned on by watching me.
  • We did it a couple of times as part of foreplay. It kind of happened as we were sitting one on the couch and one in the chair. And I’ve watched her get off as part of our lovemaking.
  • Watching her would be incredible hot but it'll never happen. She's even too shy for lingerie let alone something like this! I love her just the same :)
  • I'm more interested in watching as part of the whole sexual activity session.
  • Is a good way to learn better what pleases my spouse and how I can then do the same.
  • I would prefer participation with fondling, verbal/vocal encouragement, and swallowing healthy protein if willing. This feels very affirming, is very nutritious and healthy. Fully willing to reciprocate with wife.
  • I would love to watch her. She won't let me. She says she doesn't do it at all. I have asked her to do it and let me watch. It would show me what feels the best to her. That is useful info.
  • Big turn off. I'd rather have SEX with her!!!
  • She doesn't like to watch. She gets so aroused she finishes for me. She loves it.
  • I don't think it's anything wrong with this. Couples have to feel comfortable with each other. We do this often.
  • Biggest turn-on ever. Incredibly arousing watching my wife orgasm again and again with her G Spot vibrator before I go down on her for a few more and then we finish with PIV.
  • It is the hottest to watch my wife & she says the same of me. We love doing it together.
  • Every man wants his wife to be sexually hungry for him as well as being sexually hungry in general. When my wife masturbates, whether I'm there to watch or not, is evidence of her sexual hunger. Of course watching her makes that much more apparent and whets my appetite for her!
  • If it was done as a part of foreplay.
  • I like to watch her enjoy her orgasm.
  • It really turns me on to watch my wife pleasure herself, but she won't often do it for me.
  • It is a form of foreplay that is quite exciting!
  • Between my ED and her post-menopausal state, sometimes it's the best we can do.
  • I would much rather have her vagina wrapped around me than my own hand!
  • She gets embarrassed.
  • I love to watch her orgasm under any circumstances: oral, toys, intercourse, manual, or masturbation. Obviously within the confines of our exclusive marital relationship.
  • And I am not really sure why. But the thought of seeing what she sees as pleasurable is a big turn on.
  • I would love to share that experience with my Bride - together or separately in the same loving session. However she would never go for that.
  • My wife used to do it once in a while many years ago. Not anymore though :-(
  • I mean, why not! It's awesome to see her do this, see what makes her happy how I could do that myself at some point. Plus, it's pretty exciting.
  • I would absolutely love to watch her masturbate especially to orgasm. Watching her in secret & then watching her in the open. I find it very arousing. I would like to do the same for her.
  • I am very visual so watching my wife rub herself is a huge turn on. I have watched her masturbate before but never to orgasm. It is very sexy when she does it and I hope she will do it more often.
  • My wife is coming around and has tried it a few times but is still quite shy about it. I find it incredibly erotic but don't want to put pressure on her. There are many others ways to enjoy sex so I don't want to become fixated on just this.
  • My wife is very modest so she does not like to do this often. I love to watch this.
  • Holy cow. Hottest thing ever!!!

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