Have you made it impossible to get the sex you want in your marriage? We regularly hear from women whose husbands have done this, although the men would deny it because they do not see the situation clearly.

Some examples (all real with fake names):

Jim wants his wife Sally to climax when they have sex. He tells her that he does not enjoy sex very much when she does not climax. However, Jim feels a woman should climax during intercourse, and that it should happen without any additional stimulation. Jim also thinks that any position other than missionary is unacceptable. While some women can climax within these restrictions, and some can learn...

Pick a day when you and your husband will be home and do something to bless your husband every hour on the hour for the whole day.

Here are some ideas:

Kiss him or flash him.
Give him a small gift (this will take a bit of planning).
Pay him a compliment.
Buy a bag of flavored jelly beans, taste and guess the flavor.

At first he'll be pleasantly...